The last ego trip

Let go of fear and feelings of inferiority and we will get somewhere, really. Sure, we read this opening sentence after I write it, but we’re not reading it. Most of us will sneak around and “tiptoe” among the tulips on that concept. That means that we will be afraid to practice that idea to some extent no matter how deeply and meaningfully we read that concept, sometimes especially when we read it deeply enough to practice it. When I wrote that first sentence, even I was like for a millisecond, honestly: “Wow, where did that come from?” Everyone and everything, on some level, loves their comfort zone, and when we go above or below that comfort zone, fear and inferiority will raise its ugly head (or tail). Some people rise above it, some people don’t, but when things happen, it is there.

The best we can do with all those feelings is to let them go, destroy them or whatever we can do to be good with ourselves, because our comfort zone is just an illusion. The reality is that everything is possible in existence, and in objective reality there are no comfort zones, only reality. Wayne W. Dyer called them all bad zones, and now I see why. The mistake is to think that reality is reduced to what we think it is, purely. Reality is everything that exists, including God and nature, purely, not what we want to think it is. Also, genuinely trying to please someone other than yourself is a closed book and deadweight reality that has no value. Why? When you realize that life is within you and nowhere else, you are working with something alive and not towards a reality that has no value.

I was watching the last episode of “Happy Days” made in 1984, which represents the year 1972, when the character Richie Cunningham hit “Fonz” / Arthur Fonzarelli, and before Richie hit “Fonz” / Arthur Fonzarelli, Richie spoke with the. about how he pleased everyone else but himself, and was a perfect soldier, and had everyone else depending on him and they drank beer to drown their sorrows, but when Richie Cunningham realized the reality of the situation, he came back back to normal with a better understanding of how reality works. Sure, you can serve others, but you can’t get any illusions about it.

Realistically, you should always face yourself, not others. Avoiding yourself in fear is the key to failure. Success is courage. Create your character without fear of reality and you will really get somewhere. After all, playing God is the comfort zone, and only that, playing God. Being a complete and real person is just that, being a complete and real person. Those two phrases are the key to avoiding cults, the traps of guilt, and genuine weakness. Build strength from within genuinely on a genuine “boot strap” or in an initial step-by-step form and you will genuinely get somewhere.

So, I end with a personal example: I face blockages and frustrations like everyone else, I pay the same prices, and I work like everyone else. My big flaw when I get angry with myself is that I even have momentary envy of a celebrity like OJ Simpson (before the murders when he had people who respected and adored him as if he “couldn’t do anything wrong” according to reality). I mean, I feel just the opposite of what he seemed to be: I’m “weird,” taciturn, “nerdy,” “weird,” and sometimes overly rational and “realistic” about life. I even avoid being “a public hero” or whatever. Also, I live like a monk when it comes to women, I am not gay or anything, I just want meaningful and friendly relationships when I interact with women. In short, OJ Simpson “looks like a winner”, and when I get mad at myself for my realistic and “slow” point of view, the frustration should show up, but I don’t let it go. I know completely what is going on and I feel good about it. Aren’t all our cases?