Optimism and really earn from scratch and from scratch

Sometimes I get a little down and enviously invoke the name OJ Simpson (as a once admirable and apparently great black man back in the day, and now a guy “who got away with it”. that”) in a pessimistic way, so I quickly get over it and quickly reconcile myself to be able to function and live well where I am. With that reality said deeply and personally, I begin this article. Who does not experience, even among the best of us, obstacles and pessimistic bumps in the road that sometimes have to overcome from scratch? It is a part of life and existence, naturally. But those horrible pessimistic lemons have to be turned into a good optimistic lemonade, even by those who have everything against them and apparently nothing is going their way in a positive way (yet).

For starters, we have to be honest with ourselves, that’s what I mean by “the basic bones and from scratch” in my title. As hard as it is to admit our flaws, pessimism, and destructive tendencies. We must admit them in order to genuinely resolve them and create in ourselves inner strength and good self-esteem. Rationally, to be fully present with ourselves, we must be present and realistic about our shortcomings. Y totally virtual. Without those admissions, we are genuinely looking for our light in the dark.

Turn on the light in your room, what do you see endlessly? Do not flinch, look carefully and see yourself well or very well. When you’re fearless, crazy, or weird, those are the beginnings of genuine, unrelenting, realistic inner strength and optimism. Faking it until you “make it” doesn’t count either.

Sometimes it’s being a totally healthy, genuinely normal person with a heart that makes you a superhero if you know what I mean.

Everyone loves the feeling of winning, but many don’t like the feeling of paying for it that way. It’s a process, and it’s an amazing process that builds character and even hurts at times. But, for those who really stick with it, it really is worth it in all the ways that really count.

Ah, the joys and pains of optimism when it’s real. False optimism is closing your eyes, fearfully moving forward, and hoping things don’t blow up, screw up, or go wrong, and if you win, you get the credit, but if bad happens, you jump ship and blame like Sean McVay, the Los Angeles Rams football coach, seems to do it on our local news shows in Los Angeles, California when they lose a big game and get all the credit when they win those same big games.

I’m saying own it all, failure and success, and you’ll genuinely get somewhere, as hard as it may seem at times, because it’s genuine growth. Realistically, that’s it if you’re on a path of genuine growth without pretending, shuddering, or being afraid. Everything else is skipping the topic and missing the point. They say the wages of sin or missing the mark is death. Well, the salary of doing it is real life and existence really lived fully without evasion, that’s all. Everything is a choice, really.