My girlfriend wants to get rid of me but I don’t want her to leave! Save your relationship today

The fact that they’re still together is always a good sign, even if they’re not exactly inclined towards each other. You consider parting in your mind and your heart skips a beat. This means that you are still in love with her and the best thing to do right now is to work on the relationship, which is not a difficult task at all. Take the following 7 simple steps and her love will be rekindled once more:

1. tell her you love her – Start with that statement and at the same time tell him that he needs to know why there is an increasing distance in between. If you do it the right way, which is very important, that is, full of feelings, she will open up and tell you what is in her heart.

2. listen to her – when he starts to tell you what he finds difficult in the relationship, listen. Don’t interrupt, don’t defend yourself, and definitely don’t argue with her. She only listens to what she wants from you, what hurt her, what she feels that you have failed her.

3. Accept to make modifications – I am sure that you also have expectations and disappointments and you are also dying to share them with her; but this is not the right time. This is the time when you assure her that your highest priority is her happiness, and therefore you agree to make the modifications according to what she wants.

4. honor your commitment – act on your promise and do everything you promised him. Remember, you don’t need to change yourself 100% to please her; this is not what is advised here. You need to change your way of seeing things; try to see it from their point of view and understand their frustrations.

5. ask him to help you – Tell her that you are committed to working on this relationship and hope that she wants that too. Tell her that she always tells you what she needs more often so that she can act on her wishes.

6. share the responsibility with her – Whether you work outside the home or not, you’ll always need a helping hand to run the house smoothly. Lend that hand happily and willingly. Share it all; spoil her sometimes by giving her the day off when you would do everything.

7. Renew your passion for each other – sex is a great way to show your love; that is why it is known as ‘making love’.