Male Orgasm Denial and What’s in It for Him?
Most of what you will read about male orgasm denial is written from the woman’s point of view, meaning it talks about how your man will become submissive and obedient and start worshiping you as some sort of deity.
Oh please… Give him a break already!
There are two things wrong with this scenario.
Firstit’s just not true in the vast majority of cases (and even if it were true, the majority women don’t want to be in a relationship with a submissive and cowardly man); Y, in second placecompletely ignorant of what men comes out of it
After all, he has to get something out of it, otherwise he wouldn’t ask you or agree that you do it with him, right?
And that it does Does your average man come out of male orgasm denial?
Well, at first sight we have a paradox when we look at the typical orgasm of a man. Unlike us girls, a man’s orgasm is usually a one-time affair. He builds up to literally a climax, and then he loses all interest in you, in making love, and in fact in anything other than rolling over and going to sleep.
And while this is deeply upsetting, it’s a good thing for us women to realize that our men are generally just as disliked as we are. It sounds strange for me to say that, I know, but it’s true. You could say he couldn’t roll over and could force himself to be cuddly and affectionate, but that’s about as realistic as telling a woman to force herself to be calm, nice, and unemotional during the unpleasant days of her cycle. .
Put it like this, and you begin to understand the problem, right? It’s a hormonal chemical. He can’t help it.
This is where male orgasm denial comes in.
you see, no to restrict your pleasure at all. On the contrary, it magnificent that and lengthens it’s. Instead of experiencing a fairly short mad dash to an explosive finish followed by a loud roar, you can experience everything but the final release over and over again. As one man wrote, “It’s like being halfway to orgasm all the time, 24 hours a day… it’s amazing“.
That is first.
The second thing he pulls out is nice. your. Hard to believe, perhaps, but for a man, one of the most erotic experiences in the Universe is making a woman orgasm. She love how she sounds, how she looks, how she smells and tastes. Porn videos show women having orgasms for a good reason, you know: men like to watch it.
The only problem in “normal” relationships is that we all get lazy and by the time we’re ready to start the multiple orgasm that will make him feel like a God… he’s shot off and snoring.
With male orgasm denial, this becomes a thing of the past. He has no choice but to make you come (unless he wants to stop having sex altogether, and that’s just as likely as saying “no” to a blowjob).
And the third thing is (another paradox), you’re going to end up having plus sexual activity than ever.
Why?
Well, because both of you are going to feel much, much closer, hornier and more intimate; him because he hasn’t had an orgasm for weeks and has had the pleasure of giving you dozens; and you because you have been enjoying the orgasms that he has been giving you.
To sum up
I’m not going to claim that male orgasm denial is right for all couples, or indeed all men. Some men just won’t entertain the idea for one of several reasons; and some men claim they just can’t stand the reality even if they fully embrace the idea.
And there are some relationships where something meant to bring you both closer sexually is the last thing you really want because you really can’t stand to even look at each other and the thought of getting hot and sweaty together makes your stomach churn.
However, I have never met a man or woman in a strong relationship who has at least experienced male orgasm denial and found it beneficial to their relationship, no matter how short the periods of denial, even during the So letting him come over in the morning after you’ve had your fun and letting him sleep can have deeply erotic effects out of proportion to the “effort” you both have to put into it.