How to make a girl feel comfortable in your place
One hurdle that many guys have trouble with is making the girl feel comfortable and at ease in their place. This shouldn’t be a problem. If you’ve shared time properly, it builds comfort and trust with the girl, but sometimes even if you have, they’ll be a little hesitant and nervous. There are two main things you can do to make sure a girl feels comfortable in your house.
1. Have a nice place.
2. Suppose she has been there before.
Now let’s talk about what I mean by ‘Nice’. Money means nothing in terms of getting ugly. Unless you like superficial women, you won’t get more action just because you have a mansion. Having a nice place means having a place that follows the triple C. Clean, Comfortable, Cozy. You can have a multi-million dollar mansion that doesn’t follow the three C’s and also isn’t good at bringing in girls.
A gigantic crack house is still a crack house. When your place follows the three C’s, the girls can afford to go into Fantasy mode. They see themselves lounging around your house, totally comfortable in their pajamas or something. They love. Basically, if a girl can’t see herself fitting into your lifestyle, then she’s much less likely to have anything more than a one-night stand with you. This is fine if you’re looking for nothing more than a one-night stand, but if you’re looking for more from her, you’ll want to help her fall into this fantasy mode. Try to visualize a really hot girl lounging in a messy room, where she is almost covered in trash. Pretty hard huh? Almost NO girl would do that. So keep your house clean. This is rule number 1. Girls will feel that their dirty house reflects an overall dirty lifestyle.
Going out with messy hair will make girls assume that your life (not just your hair) is a mess. A house does this ten times more. Coziness and coziness are also very helpful in getting girls into fantasy mode. When you have nice furniture (comfort) and soft things like cushions (comfort) everywhere, girls can visualize themselves relaxing in your place. That’s a great place to put a girl’s mind when she’s at a new friend’s house. Remember again that money is not needed here.
Some cushions or a comfortable sofa can be bought cheaply. Put some thought and time into designing your place and it will make it so much easier to have girls in your life in abundance. The other great way to make a girl feel comfortable in your shoes is to bring her in with the mindset that she’s been there before. When you bring your good friends over, you don’t walk in and say, “Okay, this is the living room. This is the guest room.” and etc
You walk in and plop down on the couch. You should do this with a new girl too. If you need to know where something is, you’ll ask. Most of the time they will just drop next to you. A great technique to add to this comfort level is to have a “no shoes in the house” rule. When you walk in, just say “shoes off” and take your shoes off. Not only will she feel more comfortable, but now she knows she’s going to be around for a while. 😉
crazy friend