How to date an Asian lesbian
I think all lesbians, being all women, want and need the same thing. Lesbians around the world experience the same prejudice, oppression and discrimination. We all go through the same phase of self-discovery, acceptance, and challenges when we present ourselves in society. It is never easy for any gay individual to live the lifestyle because there will always be someone who opposes it. Fortunately in the West, they have stricter laws that protect homosexuals from harassment and discrimination. Where I eat in Asia, well… let’s just say we’re not as lucky as our brothers and sisters in the west. Apart from our culture and tradition that favors men; we are also governed by religion.
The lesbian scene in Asia is pretty stereotypical. Most Asian lesbians practice butch and femme labeling but then again, there are some who don’t. So before you make her move on Lesley, make sure she’s interested in traditional role-playing, and if so, which one she’s playing. As a precaution, keep in mind that male-to-male relationships in Asia are quite rare, if not taboo. Once your lesbian categories are established, you can now make a move.
To talk with her. This is also a good opportunity to find out if she is out. Most Asian families still don’t know anything about homosexuality and will still try to control their precious daughter even if she is already 25 years old. In Asia, it doesn’t matter how old you are. Parents will still try to control you to prevent you from bringing shame to the family and will try to lead you to a “normal” life. But then again, there are some Asian families that have adopted homosexuality as part of the norms and encourage their daughters to love freely.
So you’re going on a date. What is your first step? Take a bath and leave that body of yours squeaky clean. Hygiene is very important. Trim and shave that muffin because we’ll never know where this date will take you. We want you to smell nice and clean, so spraying yourself with a lightly scented cologne will be great. Wear clean clothes and brush your teeth.
Choose a place where you both feel comfortable. If it’s still in the closet, ask where it prefers to stay. We don’t want her mother to make a scene, so you better stay somewhere safe.
The thing about lesbians is that we treat each other pretty well. But don’t forget about chivalry, especially if you are dating an Asian lesbian woman. Hold the door open for her; carry her bag, etc. – all the practice of the “knight”. It would be nice to bring her flowers on her first date, but if she hasn’t dated and is still living with her parents, it might not be a good idea, maybe something small but special that she can take home and keep.
Women love to talk, so I’m pretty sure we won’t have any problems in the conversation area. Topics will be the standard “getting to know you.” This is a good opportunity to throw in some compliments, as we tend to feel insecure about our race around foreigners. But don’t overdo it because we might think you’re just experimenting on us.
Most out of the closet Asian lesbians are a bit lazy in terms of conservatism. We wouldn’t mind a little PDA. We’d hold hands and kiss you in public, but don’t expect a steamy hot kiss – a short, sweet French kiss is probably about as far as you’re going to go UNLESS we’re in a lesbian crowd (i.e. exclusive parties). of lesbians). ). So if you score by the end of the date, congratulations! You’ve got yourself a Mulan girlfriend.
In a country where women are supposed to be virgins until their honeymoon, sex is a big deal for us. Not many Asian lesbians would have meaningless sex. Dildos and vibrators are a bit expensive in Asia and due to our conservative culture; There aren’t many places that sell them, so don’t be surprised if the idea of sex toys is taboo for Asian lesbians. We do everything in the classic way, so wash yourself first of all.
Asians have close family ties, so if your Asian girlfriend is out or would challenge your family (and relatives) and introduce them to you, just relax. Be on your best behavior and be courteous to your family, even if they are not at their best. Don’t give them reasons not to like you. Bring something for the family when you come over, preferably something edible like a nice cake or pastries that everyone can share while getting to know you.
Asian women, regardless of their sexual orientation, are faithful, caring and very loving. When you win the heart of an Asian woman, you also win a partner for life. She will take care of you and love you through thick and thin. You will always be her priority and you will consider your improvement before anything else. So if you end up with an Asian woman as a life partner, take care of her and make her happy. She is worth every effort and emotional investment.