Getting into his head will take you to his bed
They say that one way to enter a man’s heart is through his stomach. Rather, the way to a woman’s heart and bed is through his head. Unlike men, who are highly visually stimulated animals, women, on the other hand, are stimulated by your words and your ability to make them feel good.
Have you ever wondered why you see the most beautiful women (9 and 10 years old) with the fattest and most unattractive men on the planet? I bet you think it’s because they have money, or maybe you think they’re just his uncle or something. The truth is that these men have learned to enter the mind of a woman at levels that you can not yet imagine.
I myself am not the most handsome man, nor the richest man, nor the best dressed man in my own city, much less in the world, but in recent years, I have begun to master the art of putting myself in the shoes of a woman. . head. her psyche.
The only women I’m attracted to now are 9 and 10 because I’ve learned a lot about the way these types of women think and react to situations that the average Joe hasn’t taken the time or the guts to explore. . .
Most men are what we call pick-up artists, the beta male. These are men who spend all their time, money, and energy trying to please women. They constantly compliment the woman, open doors, pull out chairs, laugh at her silly jokes, and do just about anything to try and impress them. These are insecure men who believe that they must please a woman in order for her to return their affection, but all they get in return is being included on the ‘friends list’ of every woman they pursue. These men are what we call good guys and we all know that good guys finish last if they finish at all.
Ask? What is the best thing you want to say to a woman who is beautiful? I bet all you betas said, ‘tell her she’s pretty’. WRONG!
The other, rarer class of men, whom we call Alphas, will tell you to tell him ‘You have good shoes but your feet are too big.’ Clandestine compliments work perfectly. You flatter but insult at the same time, thus neutralizing the effect. Then say something like, “I can’t date a fancy girl who can wear my Nikes.” If their response is something like “who says we’re dating anyway?”, you’re there.
Think about this. A pretty girl who knows she is pretty has lived her whole life hearing how beautiful she is. Men have tried to cater to her every whim in an attempt to woo her and make her their own. So, as a new potential partner, you must find a way to stand out from the crowd of thousands of other men who have already tried to pamper her but to no avail, which is why she remains single.
When she hears “you’re pretty,” she may politely say thank you, but right away you’ve just launched yourself headfirst into the pile of other guys who think she’s pretty. what a thing Nothing more to talk about.
Now if you tell her her feet are big, or her hair is a diaper, or her dress is too short, then you’ve done something most men are afraid to do, tell her the truth, and that’s finally it will draw her to you. .
Beautiful women are used to being looked at and admired. My advice, watch it, then ignore it. She’ll wonder why the hell you’re not as mesmerized by her booty, I mean, the beauty of it as any other man. This type of reverse psychology will intrigue her on many levels. She would be attracted to you if she weren’t for more than to know what your deal is because you are DIFFERENT regardless of what you look like (although she does look like a bum).
In the world of hot chic, what they say they want is often the opposite of what they really want. ‘I want a good boy’. Bull!, she will run over him and treat him badly or even worse, like a ‘friend’. Nice guys lack the control and confidence that a hot girl would want in a partner.
Whether he admits it or not, he wants a real MAN, an ALPHA MALE.
A man who does little to try to please. A man that ‘she’ is constantly trying to please because he never quite knows what you want. A man that ‘she’ can never seem to satisfy. Not being able to please you will keep her trying. A man who won’t give in to telling her what she ‘wants’ to hear but who will always tell her what she ‘needs’ to hear. A man she can follow anywhere. A man they can trust to be honest with them. The kind of man who deserves her affections. An alpha male. Not some jerk who does and says whatever they think she wants them to say.
Nice guys don’t get into a lot of beds because they have yet to figure out how to get into a woman’s head first.