Do you know how to express your feelings and bring your man closer to you?

How comfortable are you expressing your feelings to your man? Do you sometimes judge you for being too emotional and shut down?

Men long to melt, to experience the world of feelings through us. Men are attracted to us because we give them the chance to get to know themselves and open their hearts. In order to fully open up, you need to feel safe, nurtured, and excited in a relationship. The polarity between masculine and feminine energy is the most important factor in maintaining excitement in a relationship. What makes us men different? Our female loving hearts and a huge spectrum of our feelings.

The secret here is not to have an agenda when you talk about your feelings, don’t try to change it or affect it in any way. And definitely don’t try to blame him for what he has done. It’s more about going within and expressing what’s true for you, saying what you feel like you’re talking to yourself.

For example, if you feel angry and hurt that he was late and didn’t buy you dinner as promised, don’t start blaming him or making big statements like ‘you’re always late, you never cared for me, you never loved me. This drives a man crazy, he feels that he has totally failed and that he can’t really change anything now. He takes your words at face value and thinks that your whole relationship was a waste of time and that there was nothing good for you in it. Statements like these devastate a man and make him feel weak or angry. He could withdraw and it will only hurt your relationship.

Instead, assume that you had a good reason for being late, whatever that may be. Suppose you always mean well, maybe he was working late trying to earn more money for you and in your opinion taking care of you, maybe he really needed to be with his friends to renew his energy and be a strong man for you. . But you have every right to feel hurt, don’t suppress it. Tell him, “I had such high hopes of dating you, I missed you, and now I feel hurt and angry.” Because if you didn’t miss him you wouldn’t feel hurt. And say it more to yourself, as a statement of his feelings, without blaming him. This is how things are. If he gets defensive and asks ‘What do you want me to do with this?’ just say ‘I don’t know, that’s how I feel’. If you really just express your feelings without blaming him, he won’t be able to resist and come hug you.

I know this takes a lot of courage to be so vulnerable, but this is the way to relax into your feminine power and become very attractive to your man. I assure you that this is not a weakness, this is your feminine power. And anyway, did the old way of blaming work?

Just imagine how wonderful it would feel to be with a man who appreciates and adores you, who gives you his whole heart and does not deny you his love. And the wonderful thing is that all you need to do is relax and open up to him by fully expressing your feelings, without trying to impress or manipulate him. When you own your feelings and can express them without getting into drama or trying to get something done, your man will begin to feel safe to express his own feelings and open up to you. Once he is open, he will take you deep within himself and he will not be willing to let you go.