Why Every Relationship Needs Sex Toys
Adult sex toys is a topic that is being discussed more and more these days. Thanks to the book fifty Shades of Gray, more people buy toys and admit to using them. Did you know that around 45% of women between the ages of 18 and 60 use vibrators? Did you also know that around 78% of those women use a vibrator with a partner?
Even though you don’t like numbers, are you still one of those people who doesn’t understand why people use them? Do you feel that if you have a great sex life, why would your relationship need sex toys?
Nothing is perfect and your sex life can always get better and better. Adult toys help you spice up your relationship and have a more fun and interesting sex life. They are also the key to helping you and your partner express yourself sexually.
Everyone could use more sex and more nice sex, right? We already know that sex helps you live longer, makes your heart and immune system healthier, reduces pain and stress, and improves sleep. Adult toys help couples have more sex in more adventurous and fun ways. If your sexual attitude is more playful, then your sexual relationship is more satisfying. Makes sense?
Approximately 75% of women cannot reach orgasm through penetrative sex versus 90% of men who do. Using a toy during sex, such as a couples vibrator / sex toy for couples or a vibrating penis ring, is one way to improve the situation.
If you ask men how many women have been with you and faked an orgasm, most men will say no. This truth is that about 50% of women have faked an orgasm at least once.
If you incorporate sex toys into your sexual relationship, your chances of reaching orgasm dramatically increase.
Let us consider the time. We are all very busy and not many of us can have marathon sex sessions every time we have sex. If you are lucky enough to have an orgasm through penetration, it could take up to 20 minutes. If you were to use a fancy vibrator, it might take a few minutes.
Many men experience premature ejaculation. The Mayo Clinic suggests that one in three men or about 30% of men experience PD. One helpful way to combat premature ejaculation is with male sex toys and sex accessories. For example, penis rings help restrict blood flow from leaving the penis. Male desensitizers are designed to make you feel less sensation and delay ejaculation to prolong sexual intercourse.
Unfortunately, many men forget about their partner’s needs. The key to the best sex is that it must include an orgasm to each couple. This should be the goal every time you have sex. Sex toys can help you reach your goal and cross the finish line … together.
It is okay to use sex toys with a partner and the use of toys should not hurt your partner’s feelings. Sex toys are objects and not a real substitute for a real person.
Be sure to communicate to your partner how important each person’s orgasm is. The “hows” shouldn’t matter as much as the “whys.”
She hates her body
Many women are ashamed of their body, which can sometimes lead to intimacy problems. Using sex toys during mutual masturbation can reduce nudity anxiety and help create more intimacy.
If you’re ready to start using sex toys, be sure to read my other article: How to insert sex toys in the bedroom.
Have fun and remember that experimentation never hurts anyone!