Best Sex Positions – Top 5 Mistakes Most Men Make
One of the many challenges men have is deciding which positions to use to get loot. The biggest fears are that the woman will become bored with “the same old, same old” and, as a result, lose interest in sex. So the question is, What are the best sexual positions?
The best way to explain this is to talk about what NOT to do. With that in mind, now I will talk about the top five mistakes men make when it comes to sexual positions, so you don’t keep making them.
Position mistake 1: mimicking everything seen in a porn movie. This is probably the biggest reason men fail with sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think porn is a good model because they see studs fucking beautiful girls and … well, they just don’t know any better. The problem is that the sexual positions in those types of movies are intended to show a good scene for the viewers, not to maximize the pleasure of the actors.
And in fact, one of the WORST positions for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the woman puts her ankles on your shoulders. With your pelvis tilted so far back, your cervix may hurt if you push too hard. In addition, it is a position that exerts pressure. (If you ever get a chance to go behind the scenes and watch an adult movie being made, you’ll see how quickly the mood kills when the actress still has to stop the scene to go to the bathroom.)
Position error 2: Trying too hard to keep your weight off the woman, in any position. For a woman, sex is a way of getting closer to her man. She loves it when he leans on her lower thighs. So here’s a tip for you to try … The next time you have sex with your woman (that is, while you’re having sex), put more weight on her. You see, during sex, almost all women enjoy feeling their man’s body pressed hard against her.
So how much weight should you put on it? Do it enough so that after you come, and the sexual frenzy wears off, your wife will tell you that she feels like she’s being breastfed. Of course, do this within limits! If you are on top of her grinding her pubic bone for too long, it can be painful for her.
But the bottom line is that many, many women like to be pressured by at least part of the man’s weight. So save the chivalrous sex for the women of the royal family!
Position mistake 3: letting the woman do all the work when she’s up. For virtually all women, sex is primarily a passive activity. So by being the immobile beta male, you destroy the entire purpose of sex for her, which is to open up to you by penetrating her body.
Error position 4: Being a coward. Many guys have read too many “Men are from Mars” books and think women like it if you ask their permission for everything and let them take the lead. Instead, become the alpha male and just “do it.” Flip it over, move it here and there. Be aggressive and even throw her like a rag doll when you want to change positions, and … she’ll LOVE IT! And don’t worry about it. If something happens that the woman does not like, she will let you know.
Position error 5: Thinking that more complicated positions are better. You don’t need to be upside down, hanging from a lamp and doing something crazy. Be normal. An old recourse like the missionary (man on top, woman on back) may be the best sexual position.
Tricky positions are frustrating for everyone and often kill the mood because there is too much “where should I put my arm?” … and not enough “let’s have fun exploring”.